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If a couple can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, or come to an agreement where being cuckolded in reality does not damage the relationship, they may try it out in reality. This, like other sexual acts, can improve the sexual relationship between partners.{{Cite web |date=October 2011 |title=A consequence of cuckoldry: More (and better) sex? |url=https://www.apa.org/monitor/2011/10/cuckoldry |access-date=2022-10-22 |website=[[American Psychological Association]]}} However, the primary proponent of the fantasy is almost always the one being humiliated, or the "cuckold": the cuckold convinces his lover to participate in the fantasy for them, though other "cuckolds" may prefer their lover to initiate the situation instead. The fetish fantasy does not work at all if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will.{{cite journal|last=Klein|first=Donald C.|date=1 Dec 1999|title=The humiliation dynamic: An overview|journal=The Journal of Primary Prevention|volume=12|issue=2|pages=93–121|doi=10.1007/BF02015214|pmid=24258218|s2cid=43535241}} |
If a couple can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, or come to an agreement where being cuckolded in reality does not damage the relationship, they may try it out in reality. This, like other sexual acts, can improve the sexual relationship between partners.{{Cite web |date=October 2011 |title=A consequence of cuckoldry: More (and better) sex? |url=https://www.apa.org/monitor/2011/10/cuckoldry |access-date=2022-10-22 |website=[[American Psychological Association]]}} However, the primary proponent of the fantasy is almost always the one being humiliated, or the "cuckold": the cuckold convinces his lover to participate in the fantasy for them, though other "cuckolds" may prefer their lover to initiate the situation instead. The fetish fantasy does not work at all if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will.{{cite journal|last=Klein|first=Donald C.|date=1 Dec 1999|title=The humiliation dynamic: An overview|journal=The Journal of Primary Prevention|volume=12|issue=2|pages=93–121|doi=10.1007/BF02015214|pmid=24258218|s2cid=43535241}} |
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[[File:Hotel Ibis Quito, Ecuador. (interior) cool modern chair.jpg|thumb|In [[Sexual intercourse|sexual]] [[jargon]], a ''cuck chair'' is a [[chair]] that is used by the cuckold or cuckquean who watches their [[spouse]] [[Infidelity|have sex with another person]] and [[Masturbation|masturbate]]. The term is also especially used to describe hotel chairs that are positioned near the bed.{{Cite web |last=Tara |first=Serena |date=2024-09-11 |title=What's with All the Cuck Chairs in Hotel Rooms? |url=https://www.thrillist.com/news/nation/hotel-cuck-chair-trend-investigation |access-date=2026-02-17 |website=Thrillist |language=en}}]] |
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Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of [[Sadomasochism|masochism]], with the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.{{cite web |last=Rufus |first=Anneli |date=July 29, 2010 |title=Cuckolding: The Sex Fetish for Intellectuals |url=https://www.thedailybeast.com/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals |url-access=subscription |access-date=November 20, 2021 |work=[[The Daily Beast]]}}{{cite web|quote=Cuckolding can also be mixed with other non-monogamous relationship arrangements with which it has substantial overlap such as swinging, open relationships, and polyamory. Again, it is distinguished from these concepts in that cuckold's thrill in their partner's acts is specifically masochistic|last=Betchen|first=Stephen J.|work=Magnetic Partners blog post|publisher=[[Psychology Today]]|date=November 18, 2014|url=https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/magnetic-partners/201411/sexually-dominant-women-and-the-men-who-desire-them-part-ii|title=Sexually Dominant Women and the Men Who Desire Them, Part II}} In his book ''Masochism and the Self'', psychologist [[Roy Baumeister]] advanced a ''Self Theory'' analysis that cuckolding (or specifically, all masochism) was a form of escaping from self-awareness, at times when self-awareness becomes burdensome, such as with perceived inadequacy. According to this theory, the physical or mental pain from masochism brings attention away from the self, which would be desirable in times of "guilt, anxiety, or insecurity", or at other times when self-awareness is unpleasant.{{Cite book|title=Masochism and the Self|last=Baumeister|first=Roy|publisher=Psychology Press|year=2014|isbn=978-1138876064|location=New York}} |
Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of [[Sadomasochism|masochism]], with the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.{{cite web |last=Rufus |first=Anneli |date=July 29, 2010 |title=Cuckolding: The Sex Fetish for Intellectuals |url=https://www.thedailybeast.com/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals |url-access=subscription |access-date=November 20, 2021 |work=[[The Daily Beast]]}}{{cite web|quote=Cuckolding can also be mixed with other non-monogamous relationship arrangements with which it has substantial overlap such as swinging, open relationships, and polyamory. Again, it is distinguished from these concepts in that cuckold's thrill in their partner's acts is specifically masochistic|last=Betchen|first=Stephen J.|work=Magnetic Partners blog post|publisher=[[Psychology Today]]|date=November 18, 2014|url=https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/magnetic-partners/201411/sexually-dominant-women-and-the-men-who-desire-them-part-ii|title=Sexually Dominant Women and the Men Who Desire Them, Part II}} In his book ''Masochism and the Self'', psychologist [[Roy Baumeister]] advanced a ''Self Theory'' analysis that cuckolding (or specifically, all masochism) was a form of escaping from self-awareness, at times when self-awareness becomes burdensome, such as with perceived inadequacy. According to this theory, the physical or mental pain from masochism brings attention away from the self, which would be desirable in times of "guilt, anxiety, or insecurity", or at other times when self-awareness is unpleasant.{{Cite book|title=Masochism and the Self|last=Baumeister|first=Roy|publisher=Psychology Press|year=2014|isbn=978-1138876064|location=New York}} |
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* [[Candaulism]] |
* [[Candaulism]] |
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* [[Crime of passion]] |
* [[Crime of passion]] |
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* [[Cuck chair]] |
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* [[Cuckoldry in fish]] |
* [[Cuckoldry in fish]] |
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* [[Cuckquean]] |
* [[Cuckquean]] |
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