Dear John (Taylor Swift song)

Dear John (Taylor Swift song)

Lyrical interpretation

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== Lyrical interpretation ==
== Lyrical interpretation ==
[[File:Eras Tour - Minneapolis, Minnesota - acoustic set 1.jpg|thumb|217x217px|Swift performing "Dear John" as a "surprise song" on [[the Eras Tour]] (2023)]]
[[File:Eras Tour - Minneapolis, Minnesota - acoustic set 1.jpg|thumb|upright|Swift performing "Dear John" as a "surprise song" on [[the Eras Tour]] (2023)]]
The title of "Dear John" references the expression "[[Dear John letter]]", which refers to a letter written to a man by his romantic partner to inform him that their relationship is over.{{cite web |date=February 1, 2022 |title=15 Best Taylor Swift Songs |url=https://www.clashmusic.com/features/best-taylor-swift-songs/ |access-date=November 2, 2022 |website=[[Clash (magazine)|Clash]] |archive-date=November 18, 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20221118191109/https://www.clashmusic.com/features/best-taylor-swift-songs/ |url-status=live }} [[Rob Sheffield]] from ''Rolling Stone'' summarized the lyrics as a "dissection of a failed quasi-relationship, with no happy ending, no moral, no solution, not even a lesson learned – just a bad memory filed away". The narrator is a 19-year-old woman who is manipulated by an older man whose motives she describes as "dark" and "twisted".{{sfn|Perone|2017|p=32}} She describes the reasons why she became heartbroken, confronts the man ("Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?"),{{Cite web |last=Dunlevy |first=T'Cha |date=October 28, 2010 |title=Taylor Swift unzips her lips |url=https://www.proquest.com/docview/761272162 |url-access=subscription |access-date=2022-12-08 |website=[[Montreal Gazette]] |page=C.2 |id={{ProQuest|761272162}} |archive-date=February 7, 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230207170212/https://www.proquest.com/docview/761272162 |url-status=live }} recalls their tumultuous relationship ("You are an expert at sorry{{nbsp}}/ And keeping lines blurry{{nbsp}}/ And never impressed by me acing your tests{{nbsp}}/ All the girls that you've run dry{{nbsp}}/ Have tired, lifeless eyes{{nbsp}}/ 'Cause you burned them out"),{{cite web |last=O'Connor |first=Roisin |date=August 23, 2019 |title=Taylor Swift: Her 100 Album Tracks – Ranked |url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/taylor-swift-lover-best-songs-1989-reputation-red-lyrics-music-videos-a9076476.html |url-access=limited |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20191203140818/https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/taylor-swift-lover-best-songs-1989-reputation-red-lyrics-music-videos-a9076476.html |archive-date=December 3, 2019 |access-date=September 14, 2019 |website=[[The Independent]]}} and blames herself for their problems ("I should've known").
The title of "Dear John" references the expression "[[Dear John letter]]", which refers to a letter written to a man by his romantic partner to inform him that their relationship is over.{{cite web |date=February 1, 2022 |title=15 Best Taylor Swift Songs |url=https://www.clashmusic.com/features/best-taylor-swift-songs/ |access-date=November 2, 2022 |website=[[Clash (magazine)|Clash]] |archive-date=November 18, 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20221118191109/https://www.clashmusic.com/features/best-taylor-swift-songs/ |url-status=live }} [[Rob Sheffield]] from ''Rolling Stone'' summarized the lyrics as a "dissection of a failed quasi-relationship, with no happy ending, no moral, no solution, not even a lesson learned – just a bad memory filed away". The narrator is a 19-year-old woman who is manipulated by an older man whose motives she describes as "dark" and "twisted".{{sfn|Perone|2017|p=32}} She describes the reasons why she became heartbroken, confronts the man ("Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?"),{{Cite web |last=Dunlevy |first=T'Cha |date=October 28, 2010 |title=Taylor Swift unzips her lips |url=https://www.proquest.com/docview/761272162 |url-access=subscription |access-date=2022-12-08 |website=[[Montreal Gazette]] |page=C.2 |id={{ProQuest|761272162}} |archive-date=February 7, 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230207170212/https://www.proquest.com/docview/761272162 |url-status=live }} recalls their tumultuous relationship ("You are an expert at sorry{{nbsp}}/ And keeping lines blurry{{nbsp}}/ And never impressed by me acing your tests{{nbsp}}/ All the girls that you've run dry{{nbsp}}/ Have tired, lifeless eyes{{nbsp}}/ 'Cause you burned them out"),{{cite web |last=O'Connor |first=Roisin |date=August 23, 2019 |title=Taylor Swift: Her 100 Album Tracks – Ranked |url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/taylor-swift-lover-best-songs-1989-reputation-red-lyrics-music-videos-a9076476.html |url-access=limited |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20191203140818/https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/taylor-swift-lover-best-songs-1989-reputation-red-lyrics-music-videos-a9076476.html |archive-date=December 3, 2019 |access-date=September 14, 2019 |website=[[The Independent]]}} and blames herself for their problems ("I should've known").